Sunny, who is also a mother of twins, helps Nina during her pregnancy. The actress noticed that Nina does not show the back of her tongue. After giving birth, I decided to take her to a lifestyle coach. “I think Nina doesn’t want to show that she finds motherhood difficult sometimes,” Sani says on camera. “Because people already judged her, because of the fact that she had a baby so young and then had unplanned twins. So she also wants to rally against people who are opinionated, like, ‘Look, I can do that.’ It works out well. “Although San thinks Nina is indeed a wonderful mother, she also thinks she can admit that it is difficult.
For example, Nina’s grandfather, with whom the mother-of-three is currently living, Lisani also admitted that she has difficulty sometimes. “He says that because he cares about you so much,” Sunny tells Nina. “He hopes that you will also open up a bit more, so that you can take certain steps in your life that will help you a lot in the end.” During a session with a lifestyle coach, Nina soon dares to show her vulnerable side. When Sunny asked her how she felt during the start of the training session, Nina broke down in tears. The actress likes to see that Nina is vulnerable: “I am touched, because Nina has seen a lot of sad things in her life. (…) So it keeps piling up and at some point the bucket gets full.”
Several pain points appear during the session. For example, Nina speaks openly about her mother’s different husbands she has met in her life, and the bad relationship with her biological father comes to the fore. She also says she was bullied in high school because of her weight. While saying this, Nina breaks again. “I got bullied a lot because I’m too skinny and tall. So I got bullied for being skinny.” Sanne also now understands better why Nina doesn’t show the back of her tongue and why she makes it seem like motherhood comes so easily to her. “Because you’ve already been through a lot of hard things in life. And that can’t be compared to the difficulty of having three children, because there’s also a lot of love in it. And that love conquers.”
After that Nina is happy with this session and leaves feeling good. “I expected it differently and actually thought: What is this? But I really like it.” At the end of the episode, it is revealed that she has decided to receive EMDR therapy.
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