Demi Lovato Explains Why She Wants To Be Called ‘He/Him’ Again: ‘The Explanation Was Always Stressful’

The “Sorry Not Sorry” singer identifies as a “flexible person”. Why would she want to be addressed as “she” and “her” again? Well, it all depends on how others treat her pronouns, she says. “I had to constantly explain to people why these pronouns are recognized,” said Demi. “It was all very stressful.”

In her own words, Demi is sick of it. “But precisely because it took so much effort, I also know how important it is to keep talking about these pronouns.”

The singer also expresses her desire for more gender-neutral spaces for both artists and other people. “Every day I’m faced with the fact that they’re not there. Think of the toilets, for example. I have access to the ladies’ room, even though I don’t fully identify as a woman.”

Demi doesn’t think it makes sense that there are often only two options; Man or woman. “It doesn’t make sense. I see myself being forced to choose a woman, because there aren’t many options.” But the singer doesn’t feel like a 100 percent woman at all. “I think that needs to change. And I hope there will be more options over time.”